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an online dating service that will provide you with a safe and secure environment in which to meet other like minded, successful individuals.

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We will enable you to create your personal profile, and view the profile of your "matches" that our selective matchmaking service will create for you according to prescribed criteria. You will have complete control of your portfolio, and can exchange information privately with complete confidence. Search our thousands of members for your ideal match, and create your own romantic journey towards finding that special long term relationship. Make things more interesting by winking at people you fancy, take a personality test and get a star sign compatibility report. See who has viewed your profile. Members have access to one of SA' s largest dating groups.

We understand how important this step is towards exploring new friendships and relationships, and guarantee you complete security and confidentiality.

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Recently divorced, I lacked the confidence to meet new people and am past the stage of clubs and pubs! Match Selectively has made it possible for me to meet men again and without them I would never have had the opportunity to do so. It is also wonderful to “wink” and flirt a little within a safe environment. Meeting face to face was the next step that built my confidence. I have been on a couple of dates (in a public place), and there is one man who is definitely a “potential”. I feel like this could be my second chance at happiness, and am enjoying the experience!

Nicole, Cape Town

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